tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5587309.post287381531782352928..comments2024-02-21T14:27:37.582+08:00Comments on Life, Day by Day: Another Adoption Story - How I Told My Sonmerlmdhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07407286481553054112noreply@blogger.comBlogger29125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5587309.post-38312571540921479202013-04-14T21:11:53.519+08:002013-04-14T21:11:53.519+08:00Ramie felt loved and secure with your love, that&#...Ramie felt loved and secure with your love, that's why he grew up loving you back even though he's adopted. You're blessed with a very intelligent son who acknowledged the fact that he's from God.Badet Siazonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17945689804092572329noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5587309.post-14665099158469426902013-04-13T12:03:03.563+08:002013-04-13T12:03:03.563+08:00Sarah, good luck! It took a long time for my cous...Sarah, good luck! It took a long time for my cousin and his wife to adopt but when they did it was sheer joy for them. When the time is ripe, you and your hubby will know.merlmdhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07407286481553054112noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5587309.post-14173987562257970752013-04-13T12:01:19.211+08:002013-04-13T12:01:19.211+08:00That is sad, Ricky. It must hurt her so much. My...That is sad, Ricky. It must hurt her so much. My Lola also had a love-hate relationship with my youngest aunt but in the end, when my aunt was older (and wiser) she understood that her adoptive mother is the only real mother she will ever have. I will keep your cousin in my prayers.merlmdhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07407286481553054112noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5587309.post-29318884639353966062013-04-13T11:57:57.809+08:002013-04-13T11:57:57.809+08:0022 now and working!!!22 now and working!!!merlmdhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07407286481553054112noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5587309.post-78228917401928734462013-04-12T02:30:34.277+08:002013-04-12T02:30:34.277+08:00Very loving and kind explanation. What is importan...Very loving and kind explanation. What is important is the true love and affection that a mommy can give even if the child is adopted.Super Mommy Jemhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10896157323296384470noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5587309.post-29960963418205781192013-04-11T22:03:31.590+08:002013-04-11T22:03:31.590+08:00This post make me realized that I am also on my ea...This post make me realized that I am also on my early 30s and why not consider to have an adoption. If only my husband would allow.SarahGhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11839557919019815040noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5587309.post-4096936269275944932013-04-11T20:32:40.942+08:002013-04-11T20:32:40.942+08:00a very heartwarming stories.. I do hope that all p...a very heartwarming stories.. I do hope that all parents who adopts will have an easy way of dealing it and telling it to the kid. Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02452240322184519390noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5587309.post-54910164950192235722013-04-11T12:07:51.242+08:002013-04-11T12:07:51.242+08:00Adopted children deserve the truth and I understan...Adopted children deserve the truth and I understand how hard it must've been when you told him that. My mom is a social worker and I've heard a lot of stories (good and bad) when children learn they're adopted. I'm glad your child took it positively. :)L.Torres, RNhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01122135057461862760noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5587309.post-87035549866700955282013-04-11T11:43:32.684+08:002013-04-11T11:43:32.684+08:00thanks Tess! He has graduated from college last O...thanks Tess! He has graduated from college last October and is now working :)merlmdhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07407286481553054112noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5587309.post-14750994567356643452013-04-11T11:31:30.827+08:002013-04-11T11:31:30.827+08:00Wow, now I know how to tell a kid about his/her ad...Wow, now I know how to tell a kid about his/her adoption. This post is really helpful. :)Kim Nieveshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13542990846640060290noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5587309.post-49393856208441343602013-04-11T11:00:01.635+08:002013-04-11T11:00:01.635+08:00I can relate to him in the sense of having three m...I can relate to him in the sense of having three mothers and an uncle called as papa. Though my story is different hehe.<br /><br />I know from that moment you told him, he loves you more :)Demshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15930269958746406843noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5587309.post-40405822928924524892013-04-11T07:51:20.190+08:002013-04-11T07:51:20.190+08:00This is such a sensitive one and i thank you for s...This is such a sensitive one and i thank you for sharing this. There is no better way to tell a kid he's adopted, but you actually did enlighten him in some ways. Yamitohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12829217509296822337noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5587309.post-22502194249994701642013-04-11T07:06:31.567+08:002013-04-11T07:06:31.567+08:00"One is too old to carry him in the tummy&quo..."One is too old to carry him in the tummy"<br /><br />That's so funny! Good thing that it was easy for you. I had an adopted cousin and it was a little hard to keep the secret away from her (everybody knows except her!) and I think that it would really help if you tell the adopted child about the truth as early as possible.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5587309.post-89256874483314873272013-04-11T06:47:05.372+08:002013-04-11T06:47:05.372+08:00You were certainly blessed that day with God's...You were certainly blessed that day with God's inspiration to have such a meaningful explanation of adoption which a child can understand.Teresa Martinezhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12255626759855516210noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5587309.post-29738808637828657892013-04-11T04:20:43.371+08:002013-04-11T04:20:43.371+08:00oh that was funny, " why he has 2 mothers...h...oh that was funny, " why he has 2 mothers...he says " because that one is too old to carry me in her tummy". Your son grew up to be a fine man, you are a great mother. Ramie was right to chose you. I love this post.tesshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05843685350368710970noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5587309.post-81644846399732973412013-04-10T23:32:49.667+08:002013-04-10T23:32:49.667+08:00This is really a wonderful story. My cousin had th...This is really a wonderful story. My cousin had the opposite experience with her adopted twins. Now in their mid teens giving her headaches and heartaches yet still my cousin continue to love and showed love to them. Yes sometimes the price of motherhood is not the way you liked it but my cousin remained a loving mother to the twins.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04835290724100721708noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5587309.post-24819945171075794272013-04-10T23:16:36.929+08:002013-04-10T23:16:36.929+08:00Hats off to you for having the courage to tell you...Hats off to you for having the courage to tell your little boy about it. I wish you all the best in raising him :)<br />Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07117779061398646735noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5587309.post-37553795272679996952013-04-10T22:28:28.156+08:002013-04-10T22:28:28.156+08:00Good thing that it didn't turn out much dramat...Good thing that it didn't turn out much dramatically or horrifying like those ones in the movies or series on TV.Rochhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01993808802566037151noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5587309.post-4821360166512512102013-04-10T21:38:47.461+08:002013-04-10T21:38:47.461+08:00this is totally an unique topic to read.
TechTrick...this is totally an unique topic to read.<br /><a href="http://www.techtrickhome.com" rel="nofollow">TechTrickHome</a>Debarpan Mukherjeehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10294303089203973585noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5587309.post-17073458743979281332013-04-10T21:03:56.267+08:002013-04-10T21:03:56.267+08:00I admire you for how you were able to did it with ...I admire you for how you were able to did it with flying colors. You were able to do a wonderful job just like Papa Jesus up there for giving you a son.mommygiayhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05707904271591920845noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5587309.post-45816327803959936242013-04-10T19:09:44.530+08:002013-04-10T19:09:44.530+08:00This is really an emotional topic to tell to your ...This is really an emotional topic to tell to your adopted son but you did a good job of telling him that he is adopted.i.am.aprhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07318634993129869985noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5587309.post-10042364517580464642013-04-10T17:50:17.194+08:002013-04-10T17:50:17.194+08:00You did a great job of telling your son that he is...You did a great job of telling your son that he is adopted and heaven-sent and loved :) I bet he didn't have to feel like he has to be a rebel and vie for your attention :)Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5587309.post-85190883758834563402013-04-10T17:47:44.948+08:002013-04-10T17:47:44.948+08:00Oh how sweet :) You did a wonderful job of telling...Oh how sweet :) You did a wonderful job of telling him that he was loved and heaven-sent and adopted :) He's turning 21? Wow :) Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5587309.post-4813898396766854382013-04-10T09:27:31.893+08:002013-04-10T09:27:31.893+08:00That was an excellent way to explain a child these...That was an excellent way to explain a child these kind of (probably) hurtful true story... Along the way he should be able to grow up well and understand the situation without rebellion alongside. You're a good mom I must say.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13471694848371364932noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5587309.post-41488569244270469052013-04-10T00:17:46.301+08:002013-04-10T00:17:46.301+08:00This is a great story. I guess it's really cha...This is a great story. I guess it's really challenging finding the right way to break it to your child that s/he is adopted. You have put it very well. :)Michellehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06395714742403162603noreply@blogger.com